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She sounds like she's from a different galaxy altogether. Anyway, I just want to third what everyone else has said: the ball is in her court now. You did the right thing by emailing to try to smooth things over, but honestly, I wouldn't invest any more energy in it than that. Since it's your husband's brother, what's his perspective on the situation? (You don't even have to answer that... what I'm getting at is that if the two of them aren't especially close and he's not incredibly upset about it, I wouldn't worry about investing any more energy into the situation, at least until she comes around on her own. Know what I mean? Or did I totally talk in circles with that one? Heh.)
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Re: What would you do? Long post!!!
Anyway, I just want to third what everyone else has said: the ball is in her court now. You did the right thing by emailing to try to smooth things over, but honestly, I wouldn't invest any more energy in it than that. Since it's your husband's brother, what's his perspective on the situation? (You don't even have to answer that... what I'm getting at is that if the two of them aren't especially close and he's not incredibly upset about it, I wouldn't worry about investing any more energy into the situation, at least until she comes around on her own. Know what I mean? Or did I totally talk in circles with that one? Heh.)
