It's kinda funny, I like to be in monogamus relationships, but am still a commitment phobe. When I am into someone, they are the only person I can think about, but I still am afraid of the "M" words (moving in and marriage). I read your post that you explained how Vinnie asked you to marry him. Weird, ain't it? Everyone says that girls are the ones that want to settle down, but every relationship I have been in the guy mentions marriage or "the future" first. I try not to look that far ahead. I kinda wish that I hadn't found my BF when I did, we got together literally weeks after I broke up with my long-time abusive ex-boyfriend, but we took things really slow so they worked out fine. Things may get a little hairy when I get alittle older, since I haven't had a taste of the night life yet. My BF (he's 23) has and is already tired of it, so it may complicate things. But we'll deal with that when we get there! We just got out of a rough patch, and if we could get through that we can work through anything.