I've obviously been thinking about relationships a ton and me and some of my girlfriends were actually talking about this...
why is it that some people are serial monogomists, and others are commitement phobics!?! I have friends who don't wait more than an hour before serious relationships, and I have others that can't commit for more than five minutes.. or get scared when they actually develop feelings for someone else...
What makes someone ready to settle down? I'm just wondering cause every boy I have ever dated is not ready to settle down?!? No one probably knows the answer.. but its confusing.. cause I seriously am the kinda person that gives everything and loves loves loves.. my mom said that is my greatest asset, and biggest weakness, cause I usually get hurt. Its not that I'm commitment happy.. but I don't understand not being ready..
Anyways, probably a stupid question.. especially since most people on this board are married.. haha maybe there is something IBS and comfort and stability in relationships that is related?!?!