Now, you're shy .... and have reddish hair. So????? I'm overweight ...loud and obnoxious ...and have the most pitiful fine, stringy hair.
The point is--everybody has their faults! But everybody has their strengths too. What are yours?
I can write a story in my head (honest--- after I interview someone, I recite the whole thing, from beginning to end, to my husband. He just laughs! I think everyone's brain works like this.
If I concentrated on my faults, I'd go crazy. I'm a terrible cook, I can't sew or do anything with my hands, and I can't sit still long enough to watch a movie or tv show (this drives my hubby crazy!) But thankfully, he accepts me as I am--and loves me despite all my weaknesses.
It sounds like you have a great husband. Now, I wanna hear what you're really good at. What are your talents? What do people praise you for? (I bet I'll be jealous when I hear your reply.)