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Re: Sweet Honeys, Bev & Barbara....       06/17/04 07:35 AM Edit Reply Quote gigi Reged: 03/21/04 Posts: 1442 Loc: South Texas Barbara is right. You can forgive in your heart and never go back to the people who caused you such pain. Finding forgiveness in your heart will bring YOU such peace, something that would definitely be a start to regaining some of your health. It took me many years to forgive my dad, with God's help I am past the pain. I too have been through therapy, one of the best steps I have taken to move on in my life. Finding forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself, you never ever have to go back and visit the person who hurt you again !!! Ever !!!! One thing I learned the first appointment I had with my therapist. She had me sit down and write a letter to my dad, let it all out and tell him exactly how I felt in my heart describing the pain, the pain, and the rest of the pain. You just keep writing until your hand is about to fall off, when you are finished keep it as long as you need to ( I think I kept mine a few hours). Tear it to shreds with your hands, no shredder, if your hands are able to tear through an inch in legal pad. Thats about how long my letter was. You show it to nobody, dispose of it, burn it if you want. It took years and years of incredible pain out of my heart. Amazing, if you have never done this, I encourage you to try it. I am trying to encourage some type of relationsip with my dad, he seems to be interested only when it suits him and his schedule. I understand deep down in my heart why I bother, it just doesn't keep me from wondering why I am doing so. love to you Bev, and Barbara. gayla Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator

Entire thread More For Broads Only Bevvy 06/15/04 02:16 PM Re: More For Broads Only Janey 06/17/04 07:16 AM Re: More For Broads Only mindyj 06/16/04 12:02 PM Yaay, Mindy! Yaay, HUBBY! Bevvy 06/16/04 03:32 PM Re: More For Broads Only TammyLaurendi 06/15/04 07:39 PM Re: More For Broads Only BarbaraS 06/15/04 06:51 PM BLESS YOU, Barb! Bevvy 06/15/04 09:36 PM You are welcome Bev. BarbaraS 06/16/04 08:59 AM Nurse Barb Bevvy 06/16/04 09:09 AM Sweet Bev BarbaraS 06/16/04 12:08 PM May I Ask You, Barb....? Bevvy 06/16/04 03:41 PM Bev you are not......... BarbaraS 06/17/04 05:03 AM Re: Bev you are not......... LauraSue 06/17/04 06:57 AM Re: Sweet Honeys, Bev & Barbara.... gigi 06/17/04 07:35 AM Gayla. BarbaraS 06/17/04 11:02 AM Barbara, so true !! Glad you had a good session !! nt gigi 06/17/04 11:09 AM Re: Sweet Honeys, Bev & Barbara.... LauraSue 06/17/04 10:29 AM Thanks Barb and Gayla Bevvy 06/17/04 08:10 AM Bev gigi 06/17/04 11:06 AM Thank You, Gayla Bevvy 06/17/04 11:31 AM Re: Thank You, Gayla gigi 06/17/04 11:44 AM Gayla, Backatcha, Ya Ole Broad, You! -- nt Bevvy 06/17/04 12:02 PM Bev... BarbaraS 06/17/04 10:58 AM Barb, Why Do We Do This? Bevvy 06/17/04 11:20 AM Bev and Barbara, I know why...... gigi 06/17/04 11:53 AM Smooches, Gayla! - nt Bevvy 06/17/04 12:05 PM Re: Barbara.... gigi 06/17/04 11:17 AM BTW... BarbaraS 06/16/04 09:00 AM Bevrs jenX 06/15/04 03:02 PM Here I am again....... barbie 06/15/04 02:43 PM Barbie, you crack me up! jenX 06/15/04 02:52 PM She Does Me Too Bevvy 06/15/04 02:56 PM Re: Why didnt the doc catch it gigi 06/15/04 03:12 PM Re: Why didnt the doc catch it--- 'cause he was stunned by her beautious boobs! -nt- jenX 06/15/04 03:25 PM These Little Things? Oh, PUH-Leeze! -nt- Bevvy 06/16/04 05:34 PM How Funny!!!!! -nt- barbie 06/15/04 03:29 PM I'm not sure it will work but try hydrocortisone cream.. helps with itch and rashes -nt- Dr. Spice Yamin 06/15/04 03:25 PM Brilliant idea! Try Sudacrem too - it's antiseptic. -nt Linz 06/15/04 03:30 PM Bras Linz 06/15/04 03:05 PM An uncomfortable itch... Stephie 06/15/04 02:28 PM Re: More For Broads Only Linz 06/15/04 02:28 PM Re: More For Broads Only gigi 06/15/04 02:48 PM Gayla..... barbie 06/15/04 03:01 PM

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