Would you beleive a funeral? Why not. Actually he owned a club on Long Island- in NY. My cousin was a waitress there and my aunt passed away. He came to the funeral and we met. I was not crass enough to hit on him and he "claims" he doesnt remember me. A few weeks later- we met at the bar and he was instantly in love. It took me a little longer. But we have been together ever since. That was in 1991.