About a month ago.. at my grandmothers funeral OF ALL PLACES.. at the reception after, one of my grandmothers friends came up to my sister and said oh is that your sister over there.. refering to me. She was like yes, and the lady said wow you are so much skinnier than her. Then she came up to me in front of my aunt and boyfriend who can vouch for this, and said I hardly recognize you. I have pictures of you when you used to be skinny. Now you're all chubby. AHHHHH can you believe it. I was mortified. My aunt and sister and boyfriend sat there cracking up at how blunt this lady was. But apparently it is noticable.