Some unsolicited advice from an almost 40 year old...introspection is what the 20's are all about. The 30's are well I am just gonna be me and that is good enough, so here I am. Much easier. Don't know about the 40's yet. So I think the fact that you just know that your kitten IS cute is great, very definitive. As for the rest just experiment...as legally as possible of course.