Nugget, Nugget, Nugget ....
04/07/04 11:40 AM
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Bevvy
Reged: 11/04/03
Posts: 5918
Loc: Northwest Washington State
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Time for yourself is CRUCIAL. You really need to learn to do that. Why feel guilty over helping yourself get better, so you can be there for your hubby and people who love you? If anything, it's commendable!
Find a way to be alone -- somewhere. Hubby and I are (temporarily) in this tiny little 2-room condo. I don't have a place to go to get away (and neither does he), but I HAD to find a way. Since he's so supportive, and wants to help me get better, he left the condo. Every night at about the same time (when there's nothing on TV that he likes), I'd tell him I'm gonna chill-out with Michael, and he beat feet outa here. He takes the dog and says, "I'll be back in a half hour." He goes down to the library and checks out a few books (he loves to read!). When he comes back, I'm done. Every single night. It's MY time, and he has his time as well -- at the library or sometimes he likes to walk the puppy dog around the golf course.
Look at the difference in me. Hubby gets the benefit of having his old wife back again. Before Michael, I couldn't go ANYWHERE. Now I'm ready to go whenever hubby wants. So you see, he actually helped himself when he helped me.
And, by the way, some people don't get "healed" the first time around. They do it a second time -- and in Marilyn's case a third -- and eventually it works. I wasn't expecting it to work for me; I was SOOOO not the "hypnotherapy type," skeptical, thinking it just wouldn't work for me. But I was a mess; I had no other alternative at that point.
Oh, I would have paid ten times the price if I had known it would have made such a difference in me. It is SOOOOO worth the money!
You go, Girl!
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