Dragonfly....Thanks for making me laugh. Your comments are SO true! Just like this evening.....our lawn needs mowed, so I plan on mowing it after work before it rains again for the next two days since he is sick....but if it were me who was sick and if I were the one who usually mowed...it would wait until I was well enough to do it. Just like when I asked him to clean the bathroom after I had surgery and couldn't do anything strenuous for 6 weeks...at 5 weeks I finally had to ask him to clean it. Otherwise he was just going to let it go until I was healed enough to clean it myself. It's been months since he did a load of laundry and the last load he did were just HIS coats. Didn't wash any of my things. I have often thought of only doing my laundry. Do you think that would be too obvious?