Hey there I'm sorry to hear counselling is out. I think all men get the mommy syndrome after they get married.
They think you are their mommy and should take care of them. When you get sick that means you can't take care of them. Men have their moments but in reality women are just so much stronger. We are meant to take care of everyone and when we are sick ...take care of yourself!!
It's not fair and it's time to change the rules! My hubby has been pretty good so far but even he has his moments where I could kill him. Romance? What's that?
-------------------- IBS-D since 1999...mostly stable..i do cheat too.Bad me.