Reged: 03/02/06
Posts: 1026
Loc: West Michigan, USA
Nugget, No...that's not bad. I was in exactly the same situation with my first husband. I was stressed out with doing everything myself and tried so hard not to ask anything of him. When I did, it was like he was doing me a huge favor and he'd huff and puff about it while he was doing it. I finally (after 11 years together) got out! It was hard to do but once I realized that there really were some nice guys out there that truly care, I was okay. 4 years ago, I met my DH and he's wonderful. He's thoughtful, sensitive and caring.
I'm so sorry that you have an unsympathetic lump on your couch. At least he's where he should be!
Lauren
-------------------- Flipada - IBS-C "It's a gas, gas, gas"
**Lauren**