No kidding! Flowers once in a while or just making supper AND cleaning up would be nice. Affection is a four letter word for some men. Why does a back rub always have to end up being a gropefest? Ah well....Once we get our bodies undercontrol then hopefully things will get better. sometimes you just have to put out to shut them up(did I say that out loud?) It's tough getting men to understand the relationship between health and sex. They could be dying, breathing their last breath and if you said lets go they'd go down trying!! Good luck on the meds. I hope they make you feel "normal" soon and remember...sometimes you just have to fake it!!
-------------------- IBS-D since 1999...mostly stable..i do cheat too.Bad me.