Well...I knew this would happen, but I was hoping it wouldn't. The dreaded lack of labido. The fact that I had a total hysterectomy and can't take hormones doesn't help either. My husband has mentioned it and sometimes I think that's all he thinks about rather than how I'm feeling otherwise. Ya know? That's the main reason he didn't want me to go on any antianxiety/antidepressant. I told him that there are many things that factor into my labido and the things I need the most are the love notes he used to leave me, the flowers he used to send, the "I love you"s and "you're beautiful"s he used to whisper in my ear. He no longer does those things and can't understand why that is important right now. Ya know. So frustrating and it's hurting my feelings.