I have restaurant issues! - I always check the bathroom and try to glance into the kitchen. I don't know about guidelines to find a therapist. There are so many different schools of therapy, and you would have to ask what type of therapy they practice and then read up on it a bit I guess. I've gone to people who were referred by friends or family or something like that.
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