He just falls asleep in our bed. We don't even touch at ALL, even by accident right now. It's just a shared bed like they do in those third world countries.
He was sleeping in Kayleigh's bed but it's really hard and he has scoliosis...and I can't sleep alone etc etc. That's the only reason I'm letting him sleep beside me. he'd be in agony every day if we didn't and I'm too stubborn to give up the bed. I'm also just not skinny enough to enjoy a single bed with a 3 year old.