Shannon! I'm just sick about this for you! Especially the 3am phone call that is "none of your business!" Excuse me??? He's still your husband and it is your business! OMG how did you not punch him out?!?!?!?!?
This is my worse fear. Something like this happening to my marriage. I don't believe it will ever happen but my gosh you just never know! Men can be complete jerks and only think of themselves! They also, I believe, can sleep with other women and then come home to their wives and sleep with them then and think nothing of it. We all know that they think with!!(Sorry Tommy or other men reading this. I know you aren't like that!) Not that women aren't capable too but I know for myself I'd have GUILT written all over my face. I could never do it. I hope it gets better for you before it gets worse. I'm praying for you that everything works out. Hang in there girl and stay strong!!!!!!!