Yes, sounds like we would be a lot alike. There are things I won't tolerate-outright cheating, verbal or physical abuse to myself or Kayleigh in any way. However we are just sort of coexisting for the few hours a day he's here, which isn't much!!
And I did ask him about the phone call and have asked him 3-4 times if there's a girl or even the THOUGHT of a girl and he SWEARS no, from day one, and he might as well ahve told me that day, because he was ready to walk out that night...
That's why I think he's being honest, though a little snarky with me. Plus I don't think he could live with himself if he slept beside his daughter's mom while having sex with some young punk girl.