Reged: 04/26/04
Posts: 1490
Loc: New York, New York
Shannon,
First of all, I'm so sorry for what you are going through.
As for the phone call -- I personally have a need to always know what's going on. You must have the account information for the cell phone, right? If I were you I'd be online in a heartbeat looking at recent calls. You know the date and time and duration, so you should be able to find the number of the caller. Then I'd call it from work or a friend's house or something and see who picks up. I don't know how it works in Canada but I know in the US you can go to www.whitepages.com and do a reverse phone number lookup -- you put in the number and they give you the name. If it's a cell, though, you won't get any info.
I think I'd also call a lawyer and a counselor (for yourself).