It's funny you say I look "in command" because while we were taking pictures a big bridal party came in and I almost had a total panic attack (there's that darn social anxiety disorder at work). Thankfully I held it together and kept my composure. They were nice and smiling and saying I looked pretty so that helped!
And the train was my favorite part of the dress so I'm glad you like it...it even looks pretty bustled (I'm learning wedding words)...very exciting!