Yes, you did
03/25/06 09:22 AM
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jen1013
Reged: 05/06/05
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If he doesn't have a stable career, then why should YOU be the one to move when you're the one tied up geographically?? That's a huge red flag. Of course, I don't know details -- maybe he has a sick mother in AZ, but I think you would've mentioned that.
Everyone else gave you good advice, and like Gracie said, I think you already know that you made the right decision.
If he's the same age as you are, he probably still has a lot of growing up to do (men tend to be sorta subhuman until they hit 30 or so), so you may make it someday yet. But for now ... you've made the right choice. I know it sucks and you probably feel like crap, but you just have to move on anyway. If he has no true ties in Arizona, then the decision to break up is really his, no matter how mutual the breakup was.
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