Reged: 02/15/05
Posts: 1999
Loc: Northern Illinois, USA
Everything HoHoYumYum said is right on! You need to take care of yourself. You have a career goal, and you need to continue to work toward that.
Don't give up your dreams for another person. I did that once. Worst move I ever made...literally and figuratively. I gave up a job in my field and moved to a very rural area for a guy. Sure, I learned a lot, but if I had to do it over again, I wouldn't make the same move. Lousy relationship. In an earlier relationship, I broke up with another guy for reasons similar to yours. We were only about 100 miles apart, but I was in grad school at the time and had direction. My boyfriend...not so much. It hurt, but it was for the best.
You have to take care of yourself. *hugs* I know it's hard, but you are doing the right thing.
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You did the right thing
I gave up a job in my field and moved to a very rural area for a guy. Sure, I learned a lot, but if I had to do it over again, I wouldn't make the same move. Lousy relationship.
