Sorry to hear you're going through a bad time, and I hope things start looking up soon.
Where your family is concerned, ignore them. The arguements have nothing to do with you so let them worry about it. You don't need negativity in your life. Also they shouldn't be getting on your case about being sick. It's not like you chose to get sick.
With your work, is it possible for you to talk to them about making up the missed time? Many companies can be flexible that way. How long have you been at this job? If I were you, I would try to go work and see how it goes on Thursday. If you can't make it to the end of the day, you can always ask to leave early. They will at least see you made an effort. Also, since your doc says you can't go to work, you should get a doctor's note - they can't fire you if you have submitted documentaion by your doctor telling you to stay home.
*Edit - Just one more thing. When I said to ignore your family, I didn't mean don't have contact with them, I meant don't let the negative things they say to you affect you. Listen to each of them (mother and aunt) but let their complaints go in one ear and out the other because you don't need the added stress.
Edited by Gracie (02/28/06 03:57 PM)
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