The most important thing to remember is this is your wedding. It can be anywhere you want, any way, invite any one. Relax and look through books and talk to people and watch movies and look at anything else that will give you ideas. My husband and I eloped in Reno. We spent about $600 on everything (my dress included). We invited his brother and parents and that was it. It was so much fun and we just wanted to be married. We didn't care about all the fluff. I know that doesn't work for everyone though. But it was completely stress free. All we had to do was be there.
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