Thanks for the tips...you did do really well for your wedding...did you have a lot of guests? I think that's what is going to kill us...I don't need an expensive dress or flowers or things like that, but our guest list is going to be big thanks to my fiance having the world's largest family I do want something fancy though, but I don't think I'll use a wedding planner as I can probably find things cheaper on my own (I hope!)