people are having a hard time making ends meet in the first place. I mean, that's why kayleigh's an only right now. We could barely afford a second right now, and we'd have to have them share a room, and clothes, and i don't even want to think about daycare. We don't have to use daycare with kayleigh thank God...our schedules work out OK, but with two, Grandma may not be so willling to babysit twice a week. And some people just procreate like mad and don't think about those things, then struggle to the ends of the earth to survive. it's just a choice you can't make nowadays, IMHO. Life is VERY expensive.