you were both that honest with each other about it. That's something that's so important. i believe if for example, Trevor wanted only one and I wanted two-we'd settle at one. Never ever bring more kids into the world than one of you agrees with. Happily, trevor and I both want two. we were content at one, and still are, but think it's a nice idea to give kayleigh a best friend.
I've heard of people who "snuck' an extra kid in when their husbands ddn't want it...YIKES! i don't even have words for how completely violated I'd feel, being that guy.