I don't want to offend anyone. What works for me isn't for everyone and I want to say that upfront. So if you're easily offended, don't read this.
I believe in God and monogamy - for me. That's what works for me. I know someone who was recently hurt because her husband was attracted to another woman. Fortunately, it didn't go further than a kiss. But my friend was deeply hurt. If you love your husband, consider his feelings.
Another point - this doctor. Why is he giving you treatment for free? Does he expect something in return???? I wouldn't want to put myself in a position where I felt like I owed someone something.
A few things about affairs and attraction. It is very easy to get caught up in the moment. Affairs exist in a bubble. They're about infatuation, not about real love. They're not based on the real world. You need to ask yourself if it's really worth it. You are risking hurting someone you love deeply.
Also, it is totally understandable, I think that we are attracted to the opposite sex (or whatever your preference is). Linz was right when it doesn't shut off as soon as we say "I Do". You need to ask yourself what you really want. Maybe a counsellor could help you discover that.
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Formerly HanSolo. IBS, OCD, Bipolar, PTSD times 3.
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