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I too have always been a big flirt and have now been married for a bit over a year!

I still flirt with guys but I actually enjoy knowing it's never going to go anywhere. I love my hubby and would not condone adultery in him so why should I ever do it myself? Personally I could never live with the lies and guilt - I agree with Laurel on this one! Deceit is not good for anyone. Flirting is a fun pastime...there's no reason for it to be more and there's no reason for you to feel bad about bein sexually attracted to other people. Our hormones and senses don't get shut off when we say "I do"! If a guy ever gets the wrong message then I just cut it out and stay away. But most flirty men I've known know when it's just that.

Personally I think your doctor sounds like a creep. His wife obviously doesn't know and that's a load of crap. Unfortunately, that means you're going to have to lose your doc! As someone who had alot of flings before meeting my husband, I can tell you that however hot the sexual attraction is, that does not mean you are going to *like* them. And however good a sexual relatonship is, it doesn't beat a loving one.

HTH.

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