Hi everyone
I've never posted before on this website, but have been looking around for over a year! This message has nothing to do with IBS but I really really hope you can all offer me some insight....as people...because I've seen how good you all are at responding to posts.
I have a huge dilemma. I've been seeing a naturopathic doctor/acupuncturist/chiropracter and its always been a bit flirty...but I always thought thats just the way he is. I am a pretty attractive woman and tonight, he asked me outright to let him know if I am ever up for having an affair. It was a shock but not a surprise, since there has been this chemistry between us for the time I've been working with him. I have to admit that I am attracted to him, and am a sexual person so its hard to resist. He is married (21 years) and admitted that he has cheated a number of times, I have only been married for a year and a bit and am very happy with my husband...I just get attracted to other people very strongly.
I am so confused. He is my Dr, I see him three times a week for treatments...what do I do?????? As a Dr he is fantastic...I don't want to lose him as my healthcare provider because he's really helped me. I am upset with myself that I flirted with him, because it was like I was asking for trouble by doing it, but at the same time I thought it was safe because he was my Dr, so would never do anything about it.
Please help. I can't speak to anyone about this....
Thank you
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