I cannot believe the cheek of some people! I would be so mad.
The UK version of glamour magazine has a feature this month about gaining weight in defining moments of your life and it says things like you can gain 6 pounds your first year in college (I gained 20!) 5 pounds when you start your first real job, 7 I think when you get married, it mentioned falling in love too so that could be to blame for some of yours not just BCP. There's lots of good ways to burn those calories though its just so horrid for people to make you feel like that. We'll all go get him!