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So you caused your parents grief too, huh? Just kidding!

Explain something to me. I don't understand why he can't make up his mind. Does this mean he feels like either one would be ok? If so, I say choose the in-state school because it's a third of the cost of the out-of-state one!!!

I keep telling him to forget what everyone else is saying, and go with his gut feeling. But when we ask him which one has wants to go to, he shrugs his shoulders and says, "I dunno."

Urrrhhhh!

I've asked him to write down pro's and con's for each one, and he thinks that's silly. But that's what it comes down to. Each one has its pro's and con's. He just needs to decide what is most important to him.

I'm glad you feel you made the right decision. I think he will be happy with either decision he makes. He just doesn't have confidence in himself when it comes to making decisions!

We can't tell him where to go. Any suggestions for tonight's discussion? Tuition money is due this week. He's going to have to make a decision in the next day or two---or he won't be going anywhere.

I asked him if he wanted to stay home and work this fall, and he said, "NO!" (He's ready to be out from under our wing.)

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