You always sound so wise! And your right, I can only do so much and I need to relax a little but yes, its oh so hard!
I'm also the "planning" kind of person! I thought, well, I'll stop the pill this month month and get pregnant in this month and have by baby in this month kinda thing, boy, was I WRONG!! LOL!! Who knew!
-------------------- Taking it one day at a time.....