Michelle,
I just think you are such a sweet, caring, kind person. You have been such a support to so many people on these boards, and we all have gotten to share in some of your baby-making struggles with you.
In my heart, I honestly believe it's going to happen for you. I don't know why, I just do. I know you're worried about your ticking clock, but there are a lot of women having babies in ther mid and late thirties--and even in their early forties! One of these months, it's going to work.
That being said, with me being the total "planning" type of personality, I can sort of imagine the frustration and pain you're experiencing. When I want things, I want them right away and I want everything to work as it should! I know how frustrated I have been with my body with this whole "low progesterone" thing, and we're not even TTC!
And then your hubby... I think most men can't handle going through the exhaustion of hoping every month and then being disappointed, plus you guys have had the pain of three miscarriages. On top of that, a lot of men are more laid back. I think if I were in your situation, my husband would be saying "oh well" and figuring we'd try again the following month, no big deal. Meanwhile, I'd be agonizing!
I can totally see where you're coming from on this. Just try to take a deep breath and remind yourself that there is only so much you can do, and the rest you just have to let happen. (Yeah, easier said than done, I know.) We're all sending you big hugs and lots of support.
Big hugs and lots of love,
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Christine
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