To Stephie...who is always telling me it's not my fault...
07/14/05 12:44 PM
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Listne to the advice you give others, please *hugs*
IT IS NOT STEPHIE'S FAULT!!!!!
Life is handing you something much more sour than lemons! that is NOT your fault! What did you do to deserve it? NOTHING! When will it go away? I don't know...but it WILL get better! *hugs*
Do you know how important you are? You posted in the EFIBS Diet Boards about being concerned why I was self-diagnosing myself as bipolar. Because of your promptng I had a talk with hubby the other night. He asked me what it was like to be in the hospital. And it came out I WAS diagnosed with bipolar there (Ocd as well).
Do you realize how much HEALING I did because of your concern? Do you have any IDEA what kind of GOOD DEED you did for me? I am TALKING about all of this stuff now...no more deep dark secrets eating me alive! And please realize...you do this EVERY DAY for folks on this board. You are such a WONDERFUL soul...beautiful, courageous, kind, understanding, compassionate...the list is ENDLESS!
Stephie...you have soooooo much love in you! Yes...we have issues. And if Adrian is not able to (for whatEVER reason), support you properly...maybe it isn't meant to be *hugs* Maybe you guys could go to couple's counseling? But you know what? This DOES NOT reflect badly on either of you! I dated a bipolar guy who couldn't get help for himself. When he finally did...it was too late for us. And you know what? NO ONE was BAD! It wasn't the right fit at the right time. I couldn't support HIM the way he needed me to (incidentally he broke up with me a couple of years earlier because he couldn't suport ME the way I needed to be supported).
WHATEVER happens...please know how beautiful you are!!! How special, strong, loving, wonderful...and how much we love you and NEED you Stehpie! I know without you I would not be where I am in my healing. You have helped so many of us...that says SO MUCH about you, your character, and your love. PLEASE shower some of that love on YOU!
If it were one of us with the root canals, the job loss (atm), the probs with our b/f, etc., etc., what would you tell us? Pretend it is me and tell me what you would say. Write it down...place it in an envelope, and the next time you are feeling blue, read it! It's for YOU Steph...all the love in the world.
I love you!
Ruch
P.S. Can you exaplin your situation to your therapist? Maybe she can do phone therapy? If you belong to a church or something, maybe they have money you could use? Just a thought...
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Formerly known as Ruchie
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