It sucks doesn't it!!!!! These people that don't work full time just don't know how good they have it LOL!!!!!
We have about 10 women and 3 stalls. We have one private bathroom which is technically the "big" boss's. If I have to go twice (which is when I'm having an attack)I go once in the stall bathroom and then go in the private one. Our "big boss" isn't there that often. We have spray in each bathroom which is good. I've often contemplated keeping wipies in there too for those really sore days.
Oh and about no one knowing who's in the stall next to you? Well with only 10 women, you can tell who is who by their shoes. We have all different ages and sizes so it's easy for us to tell who's who. Sad huh!