Thanks for realizing that break ups are hard either way! Us breaker-uppers never get sympathy, but as we were talking, Chris made it sound like he was unhappy with me, too, so he should have broken up with me in that case! That is why we are counting this as mutual. he even admitted to me that he is a "codependent" and that is why. I need someone stronger, and more full of life. I am not feeling sad now, but I know I will come Friday or Saturday night!