No, no, no! YOu are most certainly NOT a loser! I do not have the emetophobia, but I know ALOT of people that do, and it is a problem just like anything else! WOuld you call yourself a loser for staying away from crowds if you had agoraphobia or claustrophobia? Then don't call yourself one now! Hope Adam is feeling better, and I am sure that he understands.