When hubby gets sick I always want to sleep on the floor so I don't get what he has. I am always catching stuff. I had to quit teaching cause I caught what the kids had so much. And I wonder how much of this is psychological!? I always feel guilty when hubby gets sick for not wanting to kiss him or hug him... I don't think I have it as bad as you do...but I'm def. not normal about this stuff.
As far as worrying about Adam...is he ok? I would be worried too! Have you been able to talk to him about it?
Sorry, I'm fuzzy right now. This might not make much sense.
Anyway, Casey, you're a fantastic person! Please don't feel guilty for being YOU, ok? *hugs*