I have a good friend like you! :-) She says what's on her mind. In the beginning of our friendship...that hurt me! Until I learned it came from her heart, a desire to help me be the best me I can be, and a cultural difference. NOW I LOVE that she's so open with me! I know I can count on her to tell me what she thinks even if she's not always RIGHT It's just great knowing she will let me know if I'm acting childish or if she disagrees with what I say/do. We're VERY close for it!
I guess that's why I saw both sides...since having her for a firend I can see her side AND mine! I don't think there's a right or a wrong...just as long as the intent is right. I think being friends with one another has helped both of us grow! I am less sensitive and she is more sensative!
Ok, I've rambled enough I'm glad you here where I'm coming from now! And that you took this as a learning expreience! You rock!