Thanks Barbie. It's something that I'll have to get the strength to finally do. I feel like if he could really see how he acts towards me he'd be ashamed and appaled.
He can't see how he is for some reason. He is not the free- spirited, happy-go-lucky guy I met 10 years ago. I know his job is very stressful and he must take it out on me?
I don't know when it happned. I think he's always been this way (controlling)but it toolk us moving in together to come out. We've only been living together for 5 of the 10 years. And that's about 5 years too long.