I started writing back to you this morning but he came into the room so I closed my response and lost everything I had written. Darn.
Let me say that I'm sorry you had to go through a bad marriage with an abusive man. That must have been incredible tough for you to leave. I am SO glad that you did as you seem pretty happy with Adam.
I think what I'll do is keep on the lookout for places to live. When my friend from work (the one that offered to have me move in) returns from her 2 week long trip, I think I'll go look at her place. It's in a beautiful area of town that I've always wanted to live in. It would also be way less than living on my own and I'd have some company.
I could never tell him I'm leaving and have to live with him for weeks. That would be awful as I know he's make it a living hell for me.
I wrote back to Sinead that today's a good day and he's being petty nice. It's days like today that I find it hard to imagine leaving him. Did you find that too? It's only when he's nasty that I get determined to do it. What made you finally go?
Thanks so much for sharing this personal info as I know you probably want to forget it. You're a pal.