a) I second Heather- THIS IS ABUSE!!! plain and simple.. I've lived through it before...
secondly- notice, etc depends on whose name/names are on the lease. I agree with others that no notice is better then a lot, but if your name is on that lease- you can move out but still eb accountable for rent- not good, so how you handle things will need to be different. Please take care of yourself, and get out soon and carefully, if you do stay after telling him your leaving him, make sure you are safe and have a place to escape to if you aren't.. he may not be physically violent now, but who knows what your leaving will do!
Amie
-------------------- Dietetics Student (anticipating RD exam in Aug 2010)
IBS - A
Dairy Allergic
Fructose and MSG intollerant