Michele- Wow you have been through hell and back lady! I am so sorry that you are going through all of this! When it rains it pours! You do really need to take care of yourself first. That is so hard for woman to do. We tend to put ourselves last and our jobs, family, and friends first. Even though your hubby is cranky it is only because he is worried about you. Husbands tend not to handle when we get sick very well. (sorry any men reading this but it is true.) Good luck with everything and let us know if we can help.