if he had made an extreme scene with me, i'd have had to get out of the car and call a girlfriend to pick me up.
kick him to the curb.
in the future, just stick with only the really safe stuff all day before a date and certainly on the date. don't drink alcohol unless you know you can handle it! i know i can't tolerate even a single beer without getting bloaty and gassy. several more will send me right to the bathroom. same with wine. i stick with my vodka drinks!
there are lovely people out there who are more mature than this dude. jeepers. what a loser.