You're Just Fine, Lyndeigh
04/23/04 08:07 PM
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Bevvy
Reged: 11/04/03
Posts: 5918
Loc: Northwest Washington State
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There's absolutely nothing wrong with you; there's no reason to ask "why [you're] like this." You have a very reasonable concern.
How well do you know this gentleman? You say you're in love with him? Is he in love with you too? If so, then it's time to have a little chat with him. Just sit down and tell him. If he loves you, he'll want to be with you, no matter what problem you have. If he doesn't want to be with you because of your IBS, then you want nothing to do with him! And you want to know it NOW, and get it over with.
My hubby loves me dearly, and supports me completely. When I have an attack, he takes care of me, serves me peppermint tea in bed, turns down the loud sounds from the TV or stereo, and makes sure I'm not disturbed. If I don't feel like going out to a restaurant because of my IBS, he doesn't push it on me. He cares about me.
Your boyfriend should feel the same. If not, dump him. You deserve better; don't settle for anything less!
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