well, she's been on a bunch, too. in fact, she's been on them since we met a few years ago. she has that Seasonal Affective Disorder (what a b*tch that is!). anyway, all the other meds kinda numbed the desire for her, 'til Effexor.
it was funny the day she realized it! she called me and said "i wanna jump on the new guy in the office." i started to respond, then realized the significance of what she'd said so i asked her to repeat herself! she said "yup... he needs to be careful not to get in the elevator alone with me." i lost it! how funny is that... i'd NEVER heard her talk like that before...
by the way, she's been on it for about 6 months and that "side effect" is still going strong!