Kelly, I'm so sorry you had such a horrible time. I get upset myself just reading your post.
Find another doctor. I know it's a PITA, but please keep trying. Finding a doctor is kinda like dating - you gotta go through a bunch of crap till you find the right one.
And Happy Birthday! I'm adding you to the birthday list. Also, I don't know if it's too late, but if you do have acid reflux (don't know if you really do or the jerk was just giving you Nexium to give it to you), the peppermint in the peppermint fudge cake can aggravate that. You can make it with vanilla or almond instead, and it's really yummy!