Ruchie, I also don't know anything about ulcers. I'm sure someone else does, but I want to tell you that you are a very special girl. You are young and beautiful, and truly you must be the strongest person I've had the pleasure of meeting. Don't ever change, keep your great attitue, Ruchie! I can't imagine what you must be going through, but keep on keeping on, because there is no doubt in my mind that you are strong enough to handle it all. Just take care of yourself, and be sure to put yourself first in these times of stress. I hope your poor husband is just as strong as you are, and I hope that you can lean on each other in times of need so that you can both pull through unscathed, together. Yes, sometimes, our toughest times are our greates blessings. So, please enjoy your holidays!