Thanks for your reply.. I'm sorry to hear about your experiences with your stepfather, and that makes total sense why you would have issues with aggressive people. I was never abused but also hate aggressive people, and I espically hate being snapped at! I also get really messed up from relationships with men, I can't eat when I date them and espically when we break up, and often get loose BMs, etc. It is cool to meet another sensitive extrovert. I call myself an introverted extrovert- I love people but I seek out very intimate emotional relationships with individuals. I love the world of feelings and I love sharing that world with others. You do sound pretty hardcore in those other ways! And I admire that you are such a strong role model for children. Congrats on being able to handle being a teacher- I was an afterschool teacher and had to quit that job because of stress!